Why can identity feel like a rule rather than a description?
Descriptions can become instructions. Once a role is repeatedly rewarded, expected and embodied, violating it can feel unreal rather than merely unpopular.
Try it
Continue into OTHERWISEFinish the sentence I am the kind of person who three times. For each answer, ask who benefits if it remains true.
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